The Three Pillars of Success: Health, Wealth, and Happiness

by opijayasinghe
Opi starting a new podcast and explaining the success tripod

Success is often perceived as financial prosperity, but true success is about balance. It’s not enough to be wealthy if your health is deteriorating or if you’re deeply unhappy. This is why I view success as a tripod—three pillars that must work in harmony: Health, Wealth, and Happiness.

The Tripod of Life

Imagine success as a three-legged stand. If one leg is weak or missing, the entire structure collapses. Many people excel in one area—perhaps they’ve amassed great wealth but struggle with health issues or broken relationships. Others are physically fit but financially struggling, or they have joy in their personal lives but lack financial stability.

True success requires all three pillars to be in sync over the long term, not just on a daily basis. This balance isn’t achieved every single day but over months and years. It’s about long-term equilibrium, not short-term perfection.

Pillar 1: Health – The Foundation of Everything

Without good health, nothing else matters. Money loses its value if you’re too sick to enjoy it. Relationships suffer if you lack the energy to engage with your loved ones. That’s why health is the bedrock of success.

I break health into three key areas:

  • Nutrition – What we consume directly impacts our energy, focus, and longevity.
  • Movement – Exercise is vital not just for physical fitness but also for mental clarity.
  • Mental Health – The mind is just as important as the body. A strong mindset, resilience, and managing stress effectively are key to maintaining a successful life.

Pillar 2: Wealth – The Engine of Opportunity

Wealth provides freedom. It allows you to make choices that align with your values and priorities. But wealth isn’t just about money—it’s about financial independence.

I break wealth creation into several components:

  • Real Estate – One of the most time-tested ways to build financial stability.
  • Stocks & Investments – Smart investing ensures your money works for you.
  • Business Ventures – Entrepreneurship and business ownership create opportunities beyond a standard paycheck.
  • Non-Cash Flow Assets – Investments like cryptocurrency, digital assets, or intellectual property can offer wealth-building potential.

The goal is not just to accumulate money but to use wealth as a tool for a better life, supporting both your health and happiness.

Pillar 3: Happiness – The Ultimate Goal

Wealth and health are meaningless without happiness. Yet, happiness is often overlooked in the pursuit of success. True happiness comes from meaningful connections, a sense of purpose, and emotional well-being.

I define happiness in these key areas:

  • Spirituality & Meaning – A sense of purpose keeps us grounded.
  • Diversity & Experiences – Engaging with different cultures, learning new things, and stepping outside our comfort zone enriches life.
  • Relationships – Success means nothing if you don’t have people to share it with. Strong relationships with family, friends, and colleagues form the foundation of a fulfilling life.

The Secret to Balance: Long-Term Thinking

Many people try to balance their lives on a daily basis, but I believe true balance is achieved over time. This concept, which I learned from Dr. Dolph D’Houze, suggests that successful people focus deeply on one area for a period and then recalibrate.

For example, an entrepreneur writing a book may immerse themselves for months, sacrificing personal time. But once the book is finished, they can shift their focus back to family, health, or relationships. Success isn’t about balancing everything at once—it’s about knowing when to focus and when to shift.

Conclusion: Building a Life of True Success

Achieving balance across Health, Wealth, and Happiness is rare, but it’s possible with intention and long-term vision. My journey, filled with successes and failures, has taught me that true success is not just financial gain, not just good health, not just joy—but all three together.

This philosophy guides everything I do, and through this podcast, I hope to document my journey and inspire others to seek the same balance.

So, ask yourself: Which of the three pillars do you need to strengthen today?

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